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Toby, 35 from Chalk, Kent

I am: fun, good looking (so they say), athletic, high sex drive, gentleman! For anyone worried about distance... I work across the entire South of England right the way up to Coventry and across to Peterborough! Always in hotels, drive a company car and always okay to travel to you/your area.

Lis, 40 from Iver, Buckinghamshire

We are looking for some extra fun with someone that can join me and my hubby... Don't mind if male or female... Both every open minded... I DO NOT FUCK ON MY OWN!!!! Please don't get shitty or rude if I don't reply in your time frame... as u can image we get hundreds of messages I will get round to answering

Claire, 42 from Croydon, London

Claire sent you a message: "Online right now need fucking" (24th Aug at 10:52pm)

Laura, 25 from Croydon, London

Looking for meets, I'm a big girl.. past curvy! so if you're into skinny etc I'm not what you want! Prefer men in there 30's, 40's no older that 49!!

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