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Ruth, 50 from Gaerwen, Gwynedd

Independent lady....looking for.... Long term relationship with the right person.... I have a need.....but am not needy,,,,.there is a difference. I have a higher than normal sex drive...... I consider myself to be open minded...but also know that...before you can run you must walk.!!! So I'm looking for an experienced.....tactile..intelligent....sexy... easy on the eye ....age bracket 46/57 or thereabouts..!(GENT / MAN / FELLA ) When I don't reply its just my way of saying NOT Interested...Not being rude...... I do enjoy a cozy nights in \ full of frolicking \u0026 fun...but also on the other hand I also like...

Vixen, 46 from Custom House, London

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Nat, 22 from Nottingham, Nottinghamshire

I'm simply a pretty average girl with a higher than average sex drive that could use someone who will take full advantage of that. I love sex toys and wouldn't mind a few more if you're buying! Love using them while being watched too. I like manly men.

Professor-X, 35 from Custom House, London

I think my mind is my most powerful asset but you might say my body is better? I am here to meet other curious minds who seek a bit more pleasure in life. I am tall and athletic with a delicate touch, I like sexually confident females as a preference....

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