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Scarlett, 40 from Headington, Oxfordshire

Hi, Please read carefully to avoid wasting my time and yours. If your age is not between 34-43 my filters kick in you will not get a response. I dont suffer fools so be warned.....I can be quite blunt if I say I am not interested I am NOT interested. If you are happily or unhappily married, or have a girlfriend or are bisexual DO NOT get in touch I am NOT INTERESTED. Also no interest in CD's . If I want to share more pictures with you I will on my terms NOT YOURS. I have a good...

Tabbzz, 29 from Wednesbury, West Midlands

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Berrisweet, 41 from Surrey Quays, London

Mature hard working women looking for some weekend fun or early morning. On need of some experienced guy.

Corinne, 53 from Birmingham, West Midlands

53 years old. 10 stone lighter than I used to be. Quite submissive. Cards on the table - I'm a pre-op transsexual. Still have very small "bits" but a very accommodating mouth and ass. I have a very broad taste in men and am looking for hot, rough meets.

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