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My Bed or yours is a sex contacts site for sexually liberated singles and couples who enjoy sex and need a fast, easy way to connect with similar people for casual meet-ups, online sex games or just some innocent flirting or voyeurism.

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We are a friendly community of very different people from a range of backgrounds sharing a common interest in sex and erotica. There is nothing dark or seedy about what goes on here, it's simply a fantastic way to meet other people for local sexual encounters.

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Our adult personals service is a fest and convenient way to meet new exciting people to explore your wild side with. No tricks, false promises, fake profiles - just a simple, discreet online sex finder. Our powerful location search lets you find matches close by and our fun communication tools allow our users to connect easily and discreetly.

We don't stop at providing great features

Having the best features, mobile application and competitive rates isn't what makes us great. Yes, it makes us pretty good but we didn't stop there. We also wanted to ensure we provided the best possible customer support via our dedicated team on hand and lastly, we wanted to be sure we had the best kind of members too. To combat the normal high levels of male to female members we offered the "women go free" promotion. A promotion which proved so popular we decided to keep it running giving us unbeatable male to female membership ratios.

Taking the first steps

It's pretty much guaranteed that we all have a fantasy of a wild no string encounter or inviting someone else to join our partner. But how do you meet someone or bring it up in polite conversation? It's difficult and that's probably why for most people it stays a fantasy.

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The first simple step is getting yourself a free account. We give everyone, that wants want one a free (no credit card) account to let them see what we're like. You can then have a look at other people's profiles and even set up your own to start getting some messages.

If you like what you see you can upgrade your account to get access to all of the features to meet even more people. We offer full searching across all of our members profiles so you can find the right people or couples for you, private messages so you don't need to give out any personal details, staff verified profiles so you can be sure about who you're talking to.

Curious of what's on offer, want to meet other couples and swingers? If you are, go and get one of our completely free accounts to try out My Bed for yourself. The only requirement is a working email address, no credit card or ID checks are needed.

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Elaine, 55 from Govan, Strathclyde

Just want occasional sex not long term .but no time wasters who want your picture but not you. I am after NSA and a bit of fun .

Jue, 56 from Cleveleys, Lancashire

Hiya,im a blonde curvy woman,very caring and likes to pamper me man,im looking for a guy who takes pride in his appearance,whos young at heart like me.looking for regular dating with just one guy.ive just come out of a.8 month relationship so not looking for anything too heavy.age range between 40/55 no younger or older thankyou.im not on here just to meet up for sex.im looking for a boyfriend .If you have no pic on here or not filled out your profile dont bother msg me,not interested in guys whos got something to hide.

David, 44 from Carrville, County Durham

Looking for fun. Sorry for no face picture. Trust me I'm ok. Ha xx

Mandy, 44 from Wigan, Greater Manchester

Right best fill this in lol I joined a while ago but never really used the site as I found it really wasn't what I expected! What people don't realise is that not everyone is looking for the same thing ie cheats, bdsm, grab a granny etc etc lol Ok I joined one thinking it was for 40+ who actually are looking for a relationship! Soon realised that for the majority of people this wasn't the case! I'm not looking for NSA or a quick shag when you're wife/partner aren't giving it you, if you're unhappy then get out...

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