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My Bed or Yours is a website dedicated to connecting people like you for adult encounters, affairs and naughty online chat. We make it easy to find local people who are looking to meet other adults for no strings fun in a safe, discreet environment. Registration is free and instant so you could be chatting to horny singles, local swingers or even bored housewives within minutes. You could even be having sex with someone new by tonight if you register now.

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Adult dating sites help people satisfy their sexual needs by connecting them with likeminded people in their area. Every day people meet, chat, exchange naughty photos and arrange to meet for casual sex through our state of the art dating platform.

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As with meeting strangers in any social environment there can be a certain risk involved. We recommend you get to know people online first before giving any personal details out like your full name, home phone or address. Try to spend some time chatting on the site and then maybe try talking over skype or web cam for a bit. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and move on. If someone causes you any concern or is abusive you can report them to our membership team who will investigate them. If anyone asks you for money or asks you to do anything illegal please report then right away. While we do everything we can to keep this site free of scammers and timewasters, they do get through from time to time so we urge you to exercise the same caution you would when meeting a stranger in any other setting.

Now the safety stuff is out of the way, lets get back to the good stuff... Getting the sex!

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  • Complete your personal member profile including a recent photo if possible (members receive over 50% more interest if they have a photo). Completing your profile will enable other members to find you and allow our auto matching application find potential partners for you. Don't worry, we never publish any of your personal details.
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Rob, 39 from Bishop's Stortford, Hertfordshire

Hi all x I like to have a laugh and have lots of fun x I like nights out as well as nights in cuddling up watching a movie x I work hard and go to the gym love motocross and keep myself fit and well trimmed x Anything else ask me x x

Hannah, 21 from Preston, Lancashire

Not long since got out of a relationship so just kinda looking but not really wanting anything serious.

Dot, 64 from Barnsley, South Yorkshire

Dot has yet to add her profile.

Heather, 23 from Chatham, Kent

Have a bf only been with him i am tight want hung 30 to 45 no older or younger

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