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Michelle, 41 from Colindale, London

Michelle sent you a message: "I'm looking for meets" (25th Jul at 2:35pm)

Helen, 53 from Dudley, West Midlands

Looking for uncomplicated fun . I love all types and am sure we can have a good time together. What ever you're looking for drop me a line and let me know, I'll do what I can to help. I'm easy to talk to and able to hold a decent conversation on most topics, if you want to talk that is..... I can bring my submissive side if required, I like to be looked after and made to feel very special

Jon, 41 from Carleton, West Yorkshire

Jon has yet to add his profile. Ask Jon for more info.

Georgie, 45 from Gillingham, Kent

I am trysexual - as in I will try anything once and if I like it I will do it again and again and again. Like all things to do with bums and anal - love fucking men up the arse and also being buggered myself. To spank or to be spanked, that is the question - I don't mind, either way is fine with me ;-) I administer my own enemas, if anyone would like to do it for me that would be a first. Will only reply to proper messages, not winks or anything. Can only do...

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