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Isobel, 66 from Long Stratton, Norfolk

enjoy dressing to please, sex is meant to be enjoyed and I love it. enjoy erotic emails and also female company, can be sub and cross dressers are welcome. Im a well made lady with ample flesh that loves being stroked. I DONT DO TEXT SPEAK and prefer the more mature players male or female. Very broadminded love filth but anal is a no no. Will only reply to complete profiles. Love to chat with somebody in Southwold.

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Tonie, 44 from Coseley, West Midlands

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