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My Bed or Yours is a website dedicated to connecting people like you for adult encounters, affairs and naughty online chat. We make it easy to find local people who are looking to meet other adults for no strings fun in a safe, discreet environment. Registration is free and instant so you could be chatting to horny singles, local swingers or even bored housewives within minutes. You could even be having sex with someone new by tonight if you register now.

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Introducing other people or couples into your sexual relationship is a great way to add some additional spice to a flagging sex-life. Many of our members are couples who enjoy partner swapping or swinging and MyBedOrYours is a great way to meet other people with the same outlook on life as yourself. Other members are married or in an un-fulfilling relationship and are looking for some discreet extra marital excitement, this is fine but we do ask our married members to be clear about their relationship status to avoid any confusion.

Taking the first steps

It's pretty much guaranteed that we all have a fantasy of a wild no string encounter or inviting someone else to join our partner. But how do you meet someone or bring it up in polite conversation? It's difficult and that's probably why for most people it stays a fantasy.

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The first simple step is getting yourself a free account. We give everyone, that wants want one a free (no credit card) account to let them see what we're like. You can then have a look at other people's profiles and even set up your own to start getting some messages.

If you like what you see you can upgrade your account to get access to all of the features to meet even more people. We offer full searching across all of our members profiles so you can find the right people or couples for you, private messages so you don't need to give out any personal details, staff verified profiles so you can be sure about who you're talking to.

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