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Lorelei, 50 from Stuckgowan, Central

Happy New Year to all. I have had an enjoyable first few months on this site (and one or two others) and have met some lovely people. I'm a tall, slim, picky girl who travels quite a bit for work. I like good conversation and company, a glass of whisky or wine, fun nights out, cosy nights in, and spontaneous, fabulous sex when everything's right xx I am only on the site every few days now. Just keeping an eye on the talent!! This is what I'm looking for .. * Interesting people with something to say worth hearing...

Ebony, 34 from Harborne, West Midlands

Fun,calm,intelligent, sexy woman........Here to make friends and enjoy the adeventures of lifes pastures of pleasure.... 'An Ebony Mustang in a field of Trojans'....That's how I would describe myself. And I'm a stickler for good hygiene, honesty and respect for each other...keeping it real.. NOTE: If your profile has no information or photo then please do not contact me, clear indication of intellectual laziness! Likewise l AM NOT INTERESTED IN KNOWING YOU IF YOU ARE YOUNGER THAN ME...MY RIGHT TO EXERCISE PREFERENCE, AND IF YOU CAN NOT GRASP THAT SIMPLE FACT THEN DO NOT COMPLAIN IF I CUSS YOU OUT....NOT...

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Martin, 48 from Wednesfield, West Midlands

I'm a man and women do find them attractive . You see me smiling away but my life has been a bit .I'm not bitter though and I am sophisticated .Women have said my legs aren't bad I am quite masculine with big shoulders and a hairy chest I'm intelligent by the standards of Wolverhampton so I can read .I like all forms of sex because I'm just grateful I know a lot of you women expect alot like a nice tight .arse and a man who can get an errection You also want money and somebody up with...

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