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Sian, 24 from Leeds, West Yorkshire

Hi im a young(ish) professional who works hard and like to play hard. Lover of cliches can you tell? I'm a fairly busy person, so please bear with me. I love rugby union but since moving to Leeds I'm being swayed to the dark side of League. I'm as open as it comes so no question is too out there. Although I appreciate that you may have your reasons of which I am not getting into, I don't do cheating so no married men or ones in a relationship please.

David, 50 from Alwoodley, West Yorkshire

Looking for oral and anal fun

Laura, 33 from Staindrop, County Durham

Hate talking about myself so take a chance and find out!! 1 life live it!!*** P.s Close yr eyes and I'll watch u???*

Karen, 66 from Bath, Avon

I am a very out going person who like to enjoy life as I lost my husband in January this year after a very long illness and now I find life is to short when I lost the love of my life and I know he would have wanted me to enjoy my life again

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