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6'2" tall looking to add a bit of excitement to my life . New to this sort of stuff so slightly shy

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I am a bubbly, interesting, pretty, very curvy, lady, I have a very good sense of humour and I have been told one of my main assets is my smile I love a enjoy a good laugh and prefer simple things in life, not looking for any drama as I have a pretty busy home and work life. I am honest to say that I am looking for an ex martial affair with a married man or living with somebody as I am looking for a spark in my life, not looking a boyfriend, but a male friend that...

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