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Kez, 54 from Esher, London

not looking for married men,one night stands,couples or men who like to dress up in women`s clothing lol.looking to meet that special one who likes to have wkds away,go to the cinema,pub lunches,cosy nights in.cuddles and kisses and what ever pops up lol.

Cuddles, 55 from Farsley, West Yorkshire

Looking for fun and friendship in and out of the bedroom.

Dean, 37 from Guisborough, Cleveland

Im not looking for any one thing in particular here, I'm open minded and adventurous and would like to expand my experiences and tastes. I consider myself to be a decent, honest and genuine guy with a kinky, horny side looking for a bit of a change and excitement.

Abbie, 40 from Esher, London

ok little bit about what im looking for ,looking for someone who i can have some fun with,if the right person comes along possibly long term relationship,not into one night stands also prfer taller guys but would consider just under 6 ft .Anyway enough info for now .SO hope to hear from you soon

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