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My Bed or Yours is a website dedicated to connecting people like you for adult encounters, affairs and naughty online chat. We make it easy to find local people who are looking to meet other adults for no strings fun in a safe, discreet environment. Registration is free and instant so you could be chatting to horny singles, local swingers or even bored housewives within minutes. You could even be having sex with someone new by tonight if you register now.

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We've looked around at the other adult relationship sites and quite honestly, we weren't impressed. Firstly we take your privacy seriously. We know you're just looking for fun and excitement but you might not want everyone to know you're on our site. All our members are required to login and your profile won't show up on a bunch of random websites. We can't offer a completely free service because we pay full time members of staff to monitor the site to ensure all the profiles are real and no one is trying to scam you. Membership fees go towards making the service better for everyone.

  • Free mobile app, find local fuck buddies on the move
  • Only genuine members, no automated messages from fake profiles or staff posing as hot singles. All new profiles checked for authenticity by a real person
  • Send winks, icebreakers, and virtual gifts as well as the usual chat and private messaging options either from your desktop or direct from our mobile app
  • More women than ever

To ensure the best mix of members we automatically upgrade all women to premium membership absolutely free. This ensures the best mix of men and women in a traditionally male dominated environment. We want all our members to be happy. By providing free upgrades to all female members we know they are happy and with so many new women looking for sex, our male members love us.

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We have a completely free - no credit card needed trail. You can get full access to search and view the profiles of horny people online now. To get started you just need to enter a few details in the signup form and you're done. We'll send you your login details straight away. There's no length personality tests or offer to complete. 30 seconds and you'll be in (oh er).

Updated profiles
Jayde, 21 from Fareham, London

21 year old new to London. And before you ask, yes they're real!

Melanie, 30 from Moor Allerton, West Yorkshire

I want NSA fun and someone with a big hard cock for me to fuck I like giving and receiving oral I like doggy style I like to fuck standing up and I like anal

Cliff, 73 from Paignton, Devon

Hi, I am a divorcee living in my owned maisonette in Fernicombe road. Unfortunately, at my age, I am getting a little bit tubby but all the important bits are in good working order and I like to practice on a regular basis. My hobby's are gardening and DIY and am good at both. I have recently completed building a plunge pool and hot tub in the top garden and use it nearly all the time. However, I have a couple of confessions to tell. Firstly, I enjoy cross-dressing and secondly I am a devout aquafilliack. If you don't...

Jamie, 40 from Branksome, Dorset

Sexy lady wants fun. Interested in local single guys only. No watersports or heavy S and M.

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