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Lucy, 49 from Enfield, London

Hi am in a sex less relationship am looking for a one night no strings my friend told me about this site so thought id pluck the courage up and give it a go must be discreet

Cliff, 47 from Hessle, Humberside

I'm experienced love giving oral & Anal,well endowed as per pic don't be shy if your inexperienced or shy not looking for love just good encounters never been with an Ebony lady something id like to change im no oil painting but I aim to please and usually do xx

Bawpaw, 29 from Knaphill, Surrey

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Rose, 50 from Leytonstone, London

Hi, before hand, I would like the say thanks for reading my profile..and more importantly..I can not respond to the messages... due family personal committment problems... Asian, very shy and I have been told many times I am a funny but anyway here to meet people... :-/ What I am looking for is a casual meet up, a meal and I don't drink alcohol, love a nice time out. Would like someone who knows how to treat a lady. And to be honest I like calling the shots and I like to be in control. :) and just want...

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