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Chas, 54 from Hopeman, Grampian

I want to live life to the full, Will try almost anything at least once. Love to give and receive massages. Not exactly sure what i am looking for. I like experimenting and who knows where the mood or the moment will take us. I have middling intelligence, but try to appear smarter by affecting a world-weary air. Logical arguments don't affect me - because I'm right, no matter what. I'm old, I'm tired and I have no time for idiots, tedious conversation or bullshit. I'm not holding my breath, but I am looking for an interesting conversation with...

Anne, 46 from Gestingthorpe, Essex

Busy professional looking to make friends to hookup with when time permits. Social time and fun needed with someone in similar position. Don't have time for commitment. No strings attached, hot, passionate sex is a welcome bonus!

rachel, 44 from Downham Market, Norfolk

im a fun loving girl who loves life and is living it 2 the full im a bit dizzy at times but a good laugh i love my kids and my friends . love goin out havin fun and meeting new people.

Tori, 24 from Gestingthorpe, Essex

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