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Mo, 48 from Guildford, Surrey

I'm a strong independent woman who knows what she wants and what she doesn't. I'm a fun loving hippy with a warped sense of humour that doesn't take life too seriously, life is for living :-) I'm an ex clubber/dancer and been around the club scene for 20 odd years, love my music lol Not really the girly girl type as spend too much time outside in my garden or out hiking the hills with my dog. Except for when the sun is out then its as least clothes as possible and I love outdoor sex, in the middle...

Crossdressr, 41 from Droylsden, Greater Manchester

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Kevin, 62 from Gateshead, Tyne And Wear

Hi looking for NSA discreet relationship feeling a bit trapped. Would love an erotic adventure with someone that could bring back the fun and adventure into my sex life . I'm a retired gentleman from a Senior position. Love to party love to dance. Love to treat a lady . An unselfish lover the women always comes first (excuse the Pun). Love to fulfill fantasies for others as well as my own. Genuine replies only please

Misstink, 22 from Prudhoe, Northumberland

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