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Ann, 49 from Rochdale, Greater Manchester

I'm an easy going person I'm looking for a possible relationship I'm open minded

Lolly, 51 from Thatcham, Berkshire

What can I say very curvy girl ... Nice smile but unsure of herself ... Married to a lovely guy who I know adores me but always find myself wondering what it would be like with another... I'm nothing to look at and I'm fat /curvy overweight but a genuine person.... With a quick sense of humour !! Ps I don't send winks so if you have one appear from me the site sent it not me .. So please don't wink I find it really irritating !!! Chat only xx

Masterjona, 48 from Bridgtown, Staffordshire

if you want to contact me.... in the title... send me your email or kik or number.. to much and i cant read it... so choose one just looking for single subs/slaves looking for subs and slaves to serve and be owned.which means im looks for girls into bdsm and the rough aspects therein so i know you are serious - the title of your message/s should read - yes please and when i talk of bdsm it doesnt mean just kink - it means something deeper - meaningful.if you just want dirty kinky sex,go find some vanilla little...

Gigi, 39 from Downe, London

Hi I'm single and looking for fun .... My life is hectic ... But I do need to find a partner in crime ... To all those cock pic bandits steer clear and try and leave something to the imagination .... Oh and I'm not sex starved Peace and love to all xx happy hunting x Ps listen guys I'm really not desperate Btw I'm 48 not 38 and can't change mi age for some reason ...... X

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