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Justhere, 54 from Colchester, Essex

Back here but was recently on as justlooking. So just to be clear, my profile picture was taken in the last momth, the dress is PVC so does hold one in a little. I am a size 12-14 in real clothes. I do consider myself as a slight sapiosexual but not exclusively. Im normal, sane, scrub up nicely and will expect the same from you. I am happy being single but sometimes its nice to see how it is on the other side. PS you have to be single too!!

Julie, 37 from York, North Yorkshire

I am interligent,hardworking, trustworthy lady. I have respect for others and searching to find the same. I enjoy cycling,travelling, passion for cooking and I love keeping fit. I am looking to meet a respetable gentleman, who we will get to spend time to get know each other better...Please note I am (NOT) interested in one night stand. Thank you for reading my profile.

Terry, 62 from Ham, London

i am a honest man i repect woman i like to watching porn at home i am looking for friendship and fun.i am divorced i have two kid grown up and 5 garnkid i like music new and old life is better shared.

Sue, 49 from Lympstone, Devon

Horny , sexy single lady looking for NSA encounters

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