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Peterb, 33 from Muswell Hill, London

As a writer of romance novels my day job requires me to be highly intone with the mind of a woman. I am looking for a lady to act out one of my written fantasies. I would also like to sit down with a sexual open lady, hear about her fantasies and possible act them out if we share a connection. Xxx

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Chat to start .. Please don't bother it you are married although I am not looking for a serious commitment I will not be dishonest Lots of laughs and naughty fun :-)

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