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Summer, 41 from Henbury, Avon

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Janey, 53 from Binley, West Midlands

Attractive fit Professional guys required for friendship and to share hobbies with. I am not into sexual encounters, threesomes or lengthy cyber chat, but I can't change it! So if that's what your after, don't waste your time reading any more, move on to the next person who may be. Im a pretty bubbly 52 yr old lady, blonde hair, blue eyes. 5ft 2, medium build. I do love a man in uniform - so if you are one and fit the bill and arent put off by my long and picky profile. it would be nice to hear...

Sairy, 60 from Wirral, Merseyside

DONT SEND WINKS , its lazy and I won't reply. Nor will I respond to "hey sexy" " wanna chat " or any other mindless 2 word intro. If you want to get anywhere , try being intelligent! And I'm not babe or Hun etc ! HEY GUYS, read the text , don't just look at the pictures , might save you time! And if you can't be bothered to fill out your profile so I know something about you then I can't be bothered to reply. Milf Looking for BBC .Or VWE or young virgins (18+) , not...

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