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Monae, 30 from Harpenden, London

Hi guys my name is monae im 30 years old and i live in hackney, east london. I'm looking for white guys around the local area to show me a good time. I love sex and haven't had it in a while. Look forward to hearing from you. I love sucking cock but hate cum in my mouth. Also hate anal, rimming (giving and receiving) and rough sex. I'm also not in any fetish stuff ie bondage, whips and chains sort of stuff. Ideally id like to find a few guys to call on for regular sex - not...

Renee, 27 from Harrow On The Hill, London

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Liam, 30 from Nine Elms, Wiltshire

Hi all, I'm a genuine guy with a high sex drive looking for NSA fun in and out of the bedroom.

Helen, 30 from Harpenden, London

NOT INTERESTED IN FUN so if ur looking for anything else give me a message if no then let's not waste either of our time

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