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Emily, 41 from Hemel Hempstead, Hertfordshire

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Masterjona, 48 from Bridgtown, Staffordshire

if you want to contact me.... in the title... send me your email or kik or number.. to much and i cant read it... so choose one just looking for single subs/slaves looking for subs and slaves to serve and be owned.which means im looks for girls into bdsm and the rough aspects therein so i know you are serious - the title of your message/s should read - yes please and when i talk of bdsm it doesnt mean just kink - it means something deeper - meaningful.if you just want dirty kinky sex,go find some vanilla little...

Sarah, 50 from Llandough, South Glamorgan

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Jenny, 23 from Hartford, Cheshire

Hi I like being moderately submissive but also love to be in control and making you beg for more! I love sex in all its forms... Get in touch for some hot NSA fun xx

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