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Finding local sex contacts online is the modern equivalent of traditional personal ads couples used to place in specialist publications or coded messages in local newspapers. The difference with My Bed or Yours is convenience and interaction. In the old days you would wait for your ad to be published then wait for some responses which generally didn't have photos. Now, with My Bed or Yours you can register, upload your profile and start searching for swingers in Harwich within minutes. Once you have found singles or couples who catch your attention you can browse their profile to find out more about them, check out their photos and connect with them with a click of a button.

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Before services like MyBedOrYours there just wasn't a way to reliably find people who want to meet up for sex in Harwich - advertising it in the paper just wasn't on was it? Times have changed and we can now offer an amazingly simple but powerful service to hook you up with horny partners in minutes.

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As with meeting strangers in any social environment there can be a certain risk involved. We recommend you get to know people online first before giving any personal details out like your full name, home phone or address. Try to spend some time chatting on the site and then maybe try talking over skype or web cam for a bit. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and move on. If someone causes you any concern or is abusive you can report them to our membership team who will investigate them. If anyone asks you for money or asks you to do anything illegal please report then right away. While we do everything we can to keep this site free of scammers and timewasters, they do get through from time to time so we urge you to exercise the same caution you would when meeting a stranger in any other setting.

Now the safety stuff is out of the way, lets get back to the good stuff... Getting the sex!

  • Step 1 – Sign up for free using the form above to get instant access
  • Complete your personal member profile including a recent photo if possible (members receive over 50% more interest if they have a photo). Completing your profile will enable other members to find you and allow our auto matching application find potential partners for you. Don't worry, we never publish any of your personal details.
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Mandy, 44 from Wigan, Greater Manchester

Right best fill this in lol I joined a while ago but never really used the site as I found it really wasn't what I expected! What people don't realise is that not everyone is looking for the same thing ie cheats, bdsm, grab a granny etc etc lol Ok I joined one thinking it was for 40+ who actually are looking for a relationship! Soon realised that for the majority of people this wasn't the case! I'm not looking for NSA or a quick shag when you're wife/partner aren't giving it you, if you're unhappy then get out...

Elaine, 55 from Govan, Strathclyde

Just want occasional sex not long term .but no time wasters who want your picture but not you. I am after NSA and a bit of fun .

Jue, 56 from Harwich, Essex

Hiya,im a blonde curvy woman,very caring and likes to pamper me man,im looking for a guy who takes pride in his appearance,whos young at heart like me.looking for regular dating with just one guy.ive just come out of a.8 month relationship so not looking for anything too heavy.age range between 40/55 no younger or older thankyou.im not on here just to meet up for sex.im looking for a boyfriend .If you have no pic on here or not filled out your profile dont bother msg me,not interested in guys whos got something to hide.

Oktay, 33 from Swindon, Wiltshire

Ok a little bit about what I'm looking for. Im looking for a good sex and I love fuck everyday I love anal sex bloody so good to me but if you like too ? If not no problem :) I love lick smooth pussy and arse hole message me if u want fucked everyday xxx

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