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Andy, 49 from Charmouth, Dorset

Just looking for casual meetings, hopefully leading to more. Please message me for anything else you want to know.

Heidi, 30 from Biggleswade, Bedfordshire

Hi everyone I'm heidi and I'm on looking for a great chat and a laugh so if your that just come and chat

Chryssie, 49 from Croxley Green, Hertfordshire

PLEASE DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME CONTACTING ME IF YOU'RE OVER 50, STOCKY, ASIAN OR HAVE AN EMPTY PROFILE. I'm an intelligent, responsive 'BBW' (size 28) seeking something REGULAR, and hopefully at least semi-committed, with a reliable, honest and highly-sexed single man in the London area (NW especially, or Herts/Bucks). You will need to be broad-minded, confident, and comfortable being seen in public with a big woman. Please be Caucasian or light-skinned/mixed race, communicative, 25-50, slim/athletic build, decently endowed and preferably a non-smoker. Stamina and a short refractory period are bonuses, as is being cut. Initially at least, safe sex...

Tracey, 51 from Dartmouth Park, London

I am submissive woman and love dominant men, I'm looking for a man who has a dominant personality and likes some fun, I love being spanked and I find being blindfolded very erotic, I'm of medium height and have a curved figure, I am open minded and also like a man to take control...

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