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Db, 36 from Havering Atte Bower, London

Best tip I can give you is if you wanna get my attention get a clear face pic up if I don't reply then please do not be offended as I do go by initial attraction so unfortunately no pic no reply I do prefer faces and I'm happy to put one up on request if you've also done so :) Again if I don't reply then please don't be offended and hurl abuse at me as either I've just not seen your message or you're not my type happy searching xx No married men please I'm after fun...

Jamelia, 27 from Wimbledon Park, London

I am a naughty but geeky girl...rather shy till I get to know you better. I am looking for some no strings fun on a regular basis. Would love some anal training and a bit of spanking. I love sucking cock and wrapping my lips around a thick one. I am submissive sexually but that does not give a green light for abuse.

Khaaan, 26 from Moseley, West Midlands

New to this after some NSA fun I'm easy going I'm not into any kind of homosexuality but I'm also not homophobic everyone to there own!! Ideal fantasy is a mature mommy type and I enjoy going out and doing things apart from just shagging let me know if your intrested;)xxx

Sophie, 27 from Havering Atte Bower, London

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