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Liz, 52 from Yelverton, Devon

In need of some wicked fun. Not looking for lots of partners just a special one and who knows where it could lead from there. Preferably at least 6ft tall as I like to wear high heels and don't like looking down on my men, unless you're laying down of course! I promise to bring out the best in you, not the stress in you :) LOVES - running, cycling and the great outdoors, red wine, log fires, music (anything goes from opera to rock) live concerts and so much more............ HATES - time wasters and players NB. I...

Chaz, 47 from Chichester, West Sussex

Athletic lady looking for a male 'friend with benefits' for some fun. Prefer a gentleman who takes care of himself and his body. Who works out. Who can dominate and be dominated. Open minded and enjoys sex :) ..... would prefer if you are over 6ft tall, single and local-ish to me. PS. No timewasters please !

Julia, 52 from Braehead, Borders

Horny Black lassie who is looking for a friend with benefits. I just want one single male friend. If you want something unique then drop me a line and we take it from there. I am not into saucy chats, webcam or filthy chats. I prefer to meet and talk. Don't be surprised to be blocked!

Eric, 50 from Little Ilford, London

Clean, genuine fetishist looking to meet ladies or convincing tv's for kinky fun. wearing latex and lingerie makes me extremely horny so why not take advantage of me. I sometimes wear a chastity device this makes me very obedient and horny, when in chastity I am an expert pussy and arse slave I will eat you out for ages so if you fancy something different why not get me to make you orgasm with my tongue. can accommodate or travel for the right person. Use my cock (and me) as you wish.

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