Start here
Join our sex dating community today and find casual encounters and uncomplicated sex with ease

Hook up for sex in High Barnet tonight

My Bed or Yours is for everyday people like you who happen to enjoy sex (and who doesn't). Find local swingers, one night stands or just some naughty online chat quickly and easily with an established sex and swingers site in the UK.

If your sex life is lacking some excitement, why not try something different?

Play the game - Who would you like to meet?

Before services like MyBedOrYours..com there just wasn't a way to reliably find people who want to meet just for sex. The only real way other than approaching strangers in bars or clubs was the personals sections of local newspapers and specialist magazines. Back in the day, many people successfully met other people for sex this way but it was a long, drawn-out process between posting the ad, it being published and receiving replies not to mention the fact that it was quite hit and miss as you often didn't get to see a picture of the person beforehand. Times have changed and so have the ways people find sex. Now you can register in less than a minute with nothing but a working email address, post a photo and description and instantly meet loads of like minded people in your area looking for sex. Once you meet people who take your fancy you can communicate in real time with them, share photos and videos and arrange to meet. You genuinely could go from creating your first adult dating profile to meeting someone in High Barnet for sex this evening, it's that simple.

Fancy a hot women calling you up begging for sex?

With mybedoryours.com that could be a reality sooner than you think. Our exclusive adult dating service finds you horny partners to play with, no strings sex when you most want it. Our mobile app means you can have your own personal bulging black book of horny contacts right in your pocket all the time. Fill out your profile and let the offers come to you or browse our extensive picture profiles of existing members and make the first move.

We have a large number of older women looking for younger fuck buddies and playmates. If you’re looking for a cougar or your relationship is looking for a little extra sexual fun, sign up and see who’s local now. If you don’t want to put up a picture, that’s fine we understand. Perhaps put a little more effort into your profile so other people know what you’re like before sending you a message. Our friendly and fun community is very welcoming and active. You can see for yourself with our FREE no credit card account. Just use the form at the top to get your login details.

Updated profiles
Ellie, 69 from Carrville, County Durham

Back in the Uk for7yrs after living abroad 41yrs. Finding it hard to meet people as at my age most everyone is married and established with already plenty friends. I am basically looking for a good friend , someone to spend days with, eventually weekends and holidays If we meet and truly like each other, then a sexual relationshihp will be a natural result..Not looking to get married , and will not respond to separated or married men. Only single non-smokers need make contact. I do prefer men to be taller than me . I do not want one...

Fen, 50 from High Barnet, London

OK, let's make this easy. 1) If you smoke, please stop reading now and move on. And yes, e-cigs count, or why would you be using them? 2) If you are married, please stop reading now and move on. If you've made it this far, please go back and check 1 & 2 above before carrying on and read all the way to the bottom. It may be useful to read it twice, just in case you missed the vital stuff the first time round. For the incredibly hard of understanding, a third of fourth reading may be beneficial....

Geoff, 63 from High Barnet, London

IS THERE ANYONE OUT THERE WHO PREFERS THE OLDER FELLA? Hello. I'm just looking for a localish Lass, (25 miles max), aged 45ish - 65ish for nsa 1-on-1 friendship and fun. I'm only seeking occasional meetings (tho' a one-off would be nice) for passionate fun on a bed or sofa. I'm NOT interested in quickies, anal activity, rough or kinky stuff. Lots of sensuality and intimacy is all I need. I'll go into much more explicit detail if I'm asked to. So if you're interested, please ask. I'd be delighted to chat.

Layla, 24 from Derby, Derbyshire

Hi would like to have a threesome with another male and my partner, who is straight also Also male needs to be toned and can pamper me

Looking for something different?

Free sign up - no credit card required

Sign in to search

A fast, fun way to find sex near you

Featured areas

Find members in