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My Bed or Yours is a website dedicated to connecting people like you for adult encounters, affairs and naughty online chat. We make it easy to find local people who are looking to meet other adults for no strings fun in a safe, discreet environment. Registration is free and instant so you could be chatting to horny singles, local swingers or even bored housewives within minutes. You could even be having sex with someone new by tonight if you register now.

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If you are not getting what you need at home or are simply looking to add some additional excitement to an existing relationship, swinging is a fantastic way to experience something new or broaden your horizons.

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You would be surprised at the types of people who use adult personals as a way to fulfil their sexual requirements. The old fashioned stigmas have long gone and adult dating is now widely accepted as a genuine way for busy people to enjoy a fulfilling sex life without needing to get involved in a complicated or time-consuming relationship or resorting to hiring the services or a prostitute or escort. With so many different people out there looking for some no strings sex and a simple, easy to use platform like ours to connect them, there is no need to pay for sex or go without. Just in-case you are concerned about your own privacy, we take this very seriously and never display or disclose your personal details. We never sell or rent out your email address or any other information to marketing companies or other websites. Being a paid service allows us to run a professional service without the need to resort to trading members details or showing ads in order to pay the running costs.

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J, 27 from High Barnet, London

love outdoor fun and car meets.... nothing better than pulling up somewhere quite and fucking!!

Sophie, 27 from Newquay, Cornwall

Looking for a little bit if fun

Angie, 53 from High Barnet, London

Genuine lady looking for that right person,love socialising and having a good time , have a wicked sense of humour ., also can be very caring and loving, love cuddles and kisses but can be very naughty with the right person , not interested in married men x

B, 62 from Shoreditch, London

Hello all you handsome fellas! Im a happy and contended lady, but would really like the company of a exciting man, who could sweep me off of my feet! If thats you come and say hi x

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