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Georgie, 45 from Highams Park, London

I am trysexual - as in I will try anything once and if I like it I will do it again and again and again. Like all things to do with bums and anal - love fucking men up the arse and also being buggered myself. To spank or to be spanked, that is the question - I don't mind, either way is fine with me ;-) I administer my own enemas, if anyone would like to do it for me that would be a first. Will only reply to proper messages, not winks or anything. Can only do...

Helen, 53 from Highams Park, London

Looking for uncomplicated fun . I love all types and am sure we can have a good time together. What ever you're looking for drop me a line and let me know, I'll do what I can to help. I'm easy to talk to and able to hold a decent conversation on most topics, if you want to talk that is..... I can bring my submissive side if required, I like to be looked after and made to feel very special

Eddie, 31 from Highams Park, London

Up for most things tbh i work alot and get board easy. Love meeting new people. General nice guy that's it .

Kate, 46 from Highams Park, London

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