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Margaret, 54 from Dudley, West Midlands

happy and bubbly blonde. I get on with everyone. Kind. Caring. Honest. Will do anything for anyone. What am I looking for? Hmmm haven't a clue.

Laura, 28 from Finstall, Hereford And Worcester

Hi boys... I'm back! I'm a curvy girl with green eyes and long brown curly hair, I'm only a shorty but I'll put heels on for you I don't smoke and I don't like being with guys that smoke either. I don't meet just because you want to, get to know me a bit first, makes for a much nicer experience xx So fed up with being asked if I'm real! Yes I am, what do you think I am?! A robot?! Don't bother messaging if that's your chat up line.

Mer, 38 from Sowerby Bridge, West Yorkshire

I'm someone who is looking for possible regular meet ups to see if we connect,both mentally and physically.I'm tall,6ft3,blue eyed and enjoy keeping fit be it via the gym or outdoors. I enjoy eating out and socialising with friends.My 'home is my castle',though,and I can just as happily enjoy an evening at home with a good DVD,great meal,and great sex.This is all dependant upon the person who I may well be with,though! If you think that person could be you then drop me a line,and get in touch. Please try and make sure your being true to yourself on...

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