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My Bed or yours is a sex contacts site for sexually liberated singles and couples who enjoy sex and need a fast, easy way to connect with similar people for casual meet-ups, online sex games or just some innocent flirting or voyeurism.

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We are a friendly community of very different people from a range of backgrounds sharing a common interest in sex and erotica. There is nothing dark or seedy about what goes on here, it's simply a fantastic way to meet other people for local sexual encounters.

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Loads of sexual experience or hardly any, it doesn't matter. We have a huge variety of members with a wide range of experiences, tastes and desires. If you are inexperienced there are loads of members here who love to corrupt young, innocent members, moulding them into sex gods for their own pleasure. While, other members like more experienced lovers to show them a trick or two. The main thing about My Bed or Yours is to be open and honest about what you want and you will find our friendly members will be very welcoming.

Taking the first steps

It's pretty much guaranteed that we all have a fantasy of a wild no string encounter or inviting someone else to join our partner. But how do you meet someone or bring it up in polite conversation? It's difficult and that's probably why for most people it stays a fantasy.

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Curious to see if there are other swingers in Holborn? You can get a peek at who's online with one of our FREE accounts. Just pop your details in the form at the top and we'll send you an invite instantly.

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Lara, 31 from Sheffield, South Yorkshire

Updating my profile to avoid any more confusion.. I am a curvy size 16 but I think all my curves are in the right place, I do H ave abit of a belly but I am working on that - if you don't like it then I'm not for you! I am very independent and yes I have the look of the girl next door but please don't be under the illusion that I can't hold my own in the bedroom. (I know what I like) I joined the site to find a regular NSA friends with benifits relationship,...

Mazzy, 50 from Tye Common, Essex

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Mitchel, 40 from Bilborough, Nottinghamshire

Mitchel has yet to add his profile. Ask Mitchel for more info.

Jen, 34 from Cossington, Leicestershire

Looking for a regular buddy, just the one, I don't particularly want a string of different guys. After all sex is better when you can relax and be honest about what's good, communication is key.

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