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Amanda, 51 from Wilsden, West Yorkshire

NOT looking for nsa! Am a guitarist, ONLY interested in a relationship ;-) x ps...no face pic...no chat!...

Ian, 45 from East Kilbride, Borders

Hi genuine honest guy Just looking for some no nonsense no strings fun. Not looking for a relationship but with the right woman you never know! Good luck with you search.

Sharon, 50 from Bucknall, Staffordshire

No point keep winking if your settings either block me or you don't answer if I message you!! If married and still with your wife and just wanting to cheat please don't bother reading any further! Just looking for an honest, genuine, NOT married or unhappily married man. Don't expect to get a nice reply if you do message and 'unhappily' married!!!! Don't be offended but if your under 35, don't bother messaging. Hate liars so if u thinking of not being honest, don't bother

Booby, 47 from Bognor Regis, West Sussex

I'm v sexual and naughty..come chat see where it goes

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