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Lily, 37 from Hoxton, London

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Jack, 57 from Northampton, Northamptonshire

I like to think that I'm a man who know's how to treat a lady the right way. I'm funloving and passionate, and I have a wicked SOH so I'm told. I am a genuine person, "what you see is what you get". I love socialising with friends and I enjoy, music, candlelight and good company. I have a fun side and love to laugh. Seeking regular no strings attached uncomplicated encounters. Looking forward to hearing from you. Thanks

Sarah, 41 from East Barming, Kent

Right, here we go. Single mum looking for company and sexual fun. I'm a wheelchair user. I've long light brown hair, size 16, big girl, lol I don't let my disability stop me from getting out and having a few in town. Would be nice to have a drinks with someone, chat, a laugh, see where it leads to. That if you are brave enough to have a drink with me, lol. Be happy to chat on here, txt and see what happens.

Sarah, 36 from Great Missenden, Buckinghamshire

Looking for no strings attached fun! Dirty chat, pics and let's see what goes from there!

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