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Shy, 40 from East Dulwich, London

Looking for several guys to gangbang me. Love anal rough sex

Joanna, 51 from Langton Green, London

I'm a single independent straight woman, just looking for a bit of fun and friendship. Looking for local-ish, single (which means not married and looking for a bit on the side) straight men who are open minded. Not really looking for relationship (but you never know what the future holds), but friendship and some fun. Prefer men over 50! and again prefer a non-smoker too! I am above average size, so if you want slim, slender or skinny, I am not the person you seek! I am also sexual submissive at times and do have a kink or two,...

James, 49 from Norwich, Norfolk

Married but needing NSA with discretion Short and to the point description but a nice guy

Lucy, 41 from Langton Green, London

I want romance, poetry and a flight to the moon.....all at the squeeze of a few buttons. However I need brain over brawn, so though your six pack looks great I need to know how your little grey cells work and whirrr. drop me a line, write me a poem....erotic prose I adore...let me see what you are made of cerebrally before we connect emotionally and physically. Lucy Xx

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