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My Bed or Yours is a website dedicated to connecting people like you for adult encounters, affairs and naughty online chat. We make it easy to find local people who are looking to meet other adults for no strings fun in a safe, discreet environment. Registration is free and instant so you could be chatting to horny singles, local swingers or even bored housewives within minutes. You could even be having sex with someone new by tonight if you register now.

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If you are not getting what you need at home or are simply looking to add some additional excitement to an existing relationship, swinging is a fantastic way to experience something new or broaden your horizons.

If you've seen any other adult dating site you'll know that some can be a bit of a sausage fest. As tempting as that may sound to some of you we can tell you it really does get too overwhelming. To keep our mix of members even we regularly run special offers to attract a certain type of member. At the moment we are offing 100% FREE full membership for women. If you're a woman and sign up to the trial you'll get a full membership straight away. Our offers will change so don't feel too hard done by if you don't qualify this time. Sign up for a free trail and we'll let you know when we run our next special offer. There's no time limit on the trail membership.

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Emma, 37 from Hengoed, Mid Glamorgan

I'm looking for a man or a woman for fun times with. I don't want commitment.

Rute, 40 from Nottingham, Nottinghamshire

I am looking for a good looking guy that looks after himself, disease free, muscular and with nice and big cock, that knows how to please a girl. I want to have a drink and see if we feel attract to each other, I am looking for someone to meet up regularly and have good fucks. if you are the guy send me a text/wink.

Terry, 42 from Lee Green, London

Hi my name is Terry and im a bubbly large build girl with a gd personality, im pretty easy going, with a strong mind and here to look for male friendship in to having a laugh, chat and possibly some fun times. Im here for discreet times and plz no sex pests or weirdos or u will b told where to go!! Im not into threesomes, or couples just normal light fun if possible..xx mesge me guys and i get back to u as quick as poss..see ya..xc

Simon, 48 from Ashton-Under-Lyne, Greater Manchester

i'm 48,divorced and been single for 11 years.i'm looking for nsa sex with any ladies who are interested your place or mine

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