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Daisyboo, 41 from Farsley, West Yorkshire

BBW seeks new FB. Single female seeking no strings fun with a regular friend with benefits.... I am selective, not interested in risky, completely random hook ups. If I see something in your profile that appeals I'll want to chat to see if we are like minded before I consider meeting up.

Neil, 23 from Mearns, Strathclyde

Work hard, Play Harder ;)

Tracey, 51 from Dartmouth Park, London

I am submissive woman and love dominant men, I'm looking for a man who has a dominant personality and likes some fun, I love being spanked and I find being blindfolded very erotic, I'm of medium height and have a curved figure, I am open minded and also like a man to take control...

Chryssie, 49 from Croxley Green, Hertfordshire

PLEASE DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME CONTACTING ME IF YOU'RE OVER 50, STOCKY, ASIAN OR HAVE AN EMPTY PROFILE. I'm an intelligent, responsive 'BBW' (size 28) seeking something REGULAR, and hopefully at least semi-committed, with a reliable, honest and highly-sexed single man in the London area (NW especially, or Herts/Bucks). You will need to be broad-minded, confident, and comfortable being seen in public with a big woman. Please be Caucasian or light-skinned/mixed race, communicative, 25-50, slim/athletic build, decently endowed and preferably a non-smoker. Stamina and a short refractory period are bonuses, as is being cut. Initially at least, safe sex...

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