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Andy, 37 from Onslow Village, Surrey

Hello. I'm an easy going guy. I work hard and play hard. I really enjoy the company of a mature lady. And if there's some romance and passion involved even better. I like to treat a lady with respect and put her needs before my own, in and out of the bedroom. My ultimate fantasy would be to be with a women that squirts. I was on this site a number of years ago and had some amazing fun times and experiences.

Karen, 52 from Ventnor, Isle Of Wight

Hey there... Not interested in"online fun"!!! Im 5'9" and a curvy size 18. NON SMOKING. If you aren't totally single I'm not interested Looking for good old fashioned proper sexy relationship x!x Someone to push boundaries with ;-) Age range of 47-57....

Kristiana, 53 from Stoke-On-Trent, Staffordshire

single bored mom seeking chats n giggles dont want to meet anyone. well maybe a police officer lol possibly fire fighter lol

Shelley, 27 from Andover, Hampshire

I am a plus size girl, size 22,my size doesn't really stop me from doing anything. I enjoy both going out and staying in, just depends who I'm with. I enjoy been treated respectfully and made to feel like I'm precious, not asking for much really. I am a good listener and like to help and support others around me. I am hopefully looking for a long term relationship depending how things go. I am not a girl who sleeps with people the first time I meet them, so if that's what your after look elsewhere.

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