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Alan, 56 from Wolsingham, County Durham

Single guy, no baggage or debt, clean, cut and shaved. Very very open minded, wide range of fetishes and willing to try anyone elses. Keen cyclist, currently on a health assault and have lost 10 kilo's in two weeks, but more to go though. Known for my marathon pussy licking sessions and giver of fine massages, including Yonni. Available 24/7 and have my own little gaff. Enjoy anal and love having my prostate milked. If you want to know anything, just ask.

Matilda, 44 from Cookley, Hereford And Worcester

Looking to chat guys really

Curve, 25 from Colchester, Essex

In a relationship, getting very little sex. Pregnant and have a kid.

Cate, 50 from Peckleton, Leicestershire

I've just turned 50 . People say I look younger. I'm not looking for one night stands or time wasters. I want a discreet relationship or friends with benefits. I need to feel connected, wanted and have more than just the physical part of an affair I'm looking for someone intelligent that wants to hold a conversation If all you want is to mess around or a quick "shag" don't bother to waste either of our times because it won't happen , that's not what I've signed up for. My marriage isn't stimulating on any front and never has...

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