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There're loads of people in Medway City Estate who aren't looking for anything serious, just a bit of fun and something a little naughty. My Bed or Yours specifically caters for men and women looking for casual relationships and people looking for a new spark in their life. You only need to sign up for free (no credit card) to start looking through our member lists, when you find someone you can send them a message and see where it goes. Most people are just looking for some fun and escapism My Bed or Yours gives you a safe discreet opportunity to let your hair down.

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There are so many reasons people turn to the internet in search of casual sex. My Bed or Yours is an adult personals website for people of all backgrounds seeking casual sex with new people.

The main reason a majority of our members choose to find sex online is convenience. You know exactly what you are getting when you sign up. Adult dating is not everyone's cup of tea but if you are looking for a no strings encounter or casual relationship why not hang out where everyone else looking for the same thing hangs out? When you approach someone in a bar or one a more 'conventional' dating website you never know how they will react to you advances. When you make a move on My Bed Or Yours the person you are contacting is expecting you to be more forward in your approach and generally won't be offended to find out you just want them for sex!

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As with meeting strangers in any social environment there can be a certain risk involved. We recommend you get to know people online first before giving any personal details out like your full name, home phone or address. Try to spend some time chatting on the site and then maybe try talking over skype or web cam for a bit. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and move on. If someone causes you any concern or is abusive you can report them to our membership team who will investigate them. If anyone asks you for money or asks you to do anything illegal please report then right away. While we do everything we can to keep this site free of scammers and timewasters, they do get through from time to time so we urge you to exercise the same caution you would when meeting a stranger in any other setting.

Now the safety stuff is out of the way, lets get back to the good stuff... Getting the sex!

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  • Complete your personal member profile including a recent photo if possible (members receive over 50% more interest if they have a photo). Completing your profile will enable other members to find you and allow our auto matching application find potential partners for you. Don't worry, we never publish any of your personal details.
  • Start checking out other members profiles, have a look at their naughty photos and sexy member diaries. For extra convenience, check out our new 'who's near me' application which will show you members near you on an easy to use interactive map without giving away your exact location or any personal details. Start contacting members. Don't worry if you are shy, try an icebreaker or a cheeky wink to get the ball rolling.

Curious of what's on offer, want to meet other couples and swingers? If you are, go and get one of our completely free accounts to try out My Bed for yourself. The only requirement is a working email address, no credit card or ID checks are needed.

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Jade, 33 from Hinckley, Leicestershire

Gentlemen only! Jeez , this site has been eye opening! I'm a fun person who also likes decent conversation. Yes my pic is a tit shot but please...have some common decency if you want to chat. Messages that state how you want to lick/suck/bite/slide your rock hard cock between my tits and cum in my face before you've even said hello will be deleted without being read. Last time I checked, this site wasn't babestation!! :)

JayCee, 61 from Durham, County Durham

=================================== ****Please do NOT contact me if you are under 6ft tall. **** Unless you think you would be perfect for me.. You are wasting your time and mine if you do. !! ******************************************************* ******************************************************* Seeking one partner only.... OVER 54. A meaningful relationship would be welcomed NO ONE NIGHT STANDS NO N S A I will NOT be your fuck buddy I am too good for the above s*** You will hopefully be single....I' d want you all to myself. I dont indulge in one night stands ------------------------------------------- No airs and graces, just me. Not looking for Discreet,...

Ann, 63 from Wellington, Shropshire

Please don`t send winks or add to my favourites as they will be deleted . While you are sending silly winks that mean nothing you could of sent a message. Hi i`,m looking for a friend and see where it leads. I`m not looking for sex straight away, as i like to get to know someone first,

Alex, 61 from Gourock, Strathclyde

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