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Virgo, 36 from Merton Park, London

Looking for a real man who knows how to treat a real woman most important how to satisfy me an not afraid to be there true self an express it

Bill, 52 from Merton Park, London

Hi im Bill and i live and work in Belfast. Ive been in an unhappy marriage for a while now but because of circumstances cant and dont want to leave. Im on here looking for some nsa fun . I like to have a laugh and enjoy good company .

Honey, 44 from Chapel Allerton, West Yorkshire

Forty something feisty female of Jamaican descent who's here to have some interesting chats with men of good character and wit. I'm also here in a vain attempt to hopefully find a playmate, nothing heavy just some harmless uncomplicated fun times with the right person. Of course compatibility would determine the course of events, 'spontaneity' 'hook up's' come to mind. I like to be 'stimulated' so imperative this is achieved mentally as well as physically. After all, a girl has her needs to take care of!

Oldflame, 43 from Stoke-On-Trent, Staffordshire

Please don't message me till you've read to the end. Saves us both a lot of time. And in addition, it proves to me you are capable of reading and understanding something ;) Basically, I'm not getting in the van until I've seen the sweets... That is, I won't decide if I want to take anything further without seeing a face pic - no offence to all the lovely dick pics obviously ;) If you want to send me a face pic and see mine, please ask. But if I'm not into you I won't start chatting. It's just...

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