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Katie, 32 from Lenzie, Strathclyde

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Chelsea, 23 from Harold Wood, London

I have been on here before but I got a little nervous when it came to the meeting up as I've never done something like this before, when it comes to messaging and sending pictures I'm really confident but when it actually comes to the meeting up I just get too nervous, I need to build my confidence up more and need some fun in my life! If your ok with that then your more than welcome to message me and let's see where things go! I'm 5ft, long dark brown hair, brown eyes, I'm size 18, I don't...

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