Start here
Join our sex dating community today and find casual encounters and uncomplicated sex with ease

Find casual sex, naughty bed buddies and online fun with UK's adult contacts website

My Bed or Yours is a discreet, easy to use adult contacts site for open minded adults to meet other adults for some naughty fun, a bit on the side or a regular fuck buddy. If you are looking for a good time without the commitment or dramas that come with a serious relationship, My Bed or Yours is your new best friend. Search online for new sex partners in Mortlake or slip it in your pocket with our latest mobile app and find casual sex wherever you are.

Play the game - Who would you like to meet?

People are far more open about what they real want from a relationship and sex - lots of people just want some fun and a physical connection. mybedoryours.com is your place to meet people for a little adult bedroom fun. Just finished a long term relationship and want to go wild for a while? Want to meet a sexy housewife? Fancy spicing up your marriage? We offer easy to use profile searches that allow you to say exactly who you want to meet. We even continue searching while you're not even logged in - we'll send you a message when we find new people.

Site features include:

  • Advanced member search, who's near me and auto profile matching
  • Chat and messaging apps
  • Uncensored photos
  • Advanced privacy controls
  • See who's online when you are
  • See who's viewed your profile
  • Safe, secure and completely confidential
  • Exclusive mobile enabled features so you are always available for some late night action or last minute booty call
  • Postcode search

Even if you are not ready for a full blown affair or watching you partner having sex with another person, there is still a lot of fun to be had on My Bed or Yours. Why not start by some harmless flirting either with another person or a couple who are already enjoying the benefits of an open relationship. Take your time and if you feel it's right for you, find a couple you feel comfortable with to share your first swinging experience with. If you don't feel swinging is for you, you can still have fun viewing other members photos, videos and diaries and chatting to other horny members.

Why not sign up for your free trail account and see how you get on?

Updated profiles
Jenny, 23 from Southampton, Hampshire

Hi I like being moderately submissive but also love to be in control and making you beg for more! I love sex in all its forms... Get in touch for some hot NSA fun xx

Louise, 47 from Westgate On Sea, Kent

I am a bubbly, interesting, pretty, very curvy, lady, I have a very good sense of humour and I have been told one of my main assets is my smile I love a enjoy a good laugh and prefer simple things in life, not looking for any drama as I have a pretty busy home and work life. I am honest to say that I am looking for an ex martial affair with a married man or living with somebody as I am looking for a spark in my life, not looking a boyfriend, but a male friend that...

John, 42 from Mortlake, London

Hello there, 6ft tall dominant male, never been married, no kids, own home and car etc looking to chat or meet, drop a line and see if we click, I'm looking for fun but always open to more if the right one comes along. Love playing with cuffs, toys, blindfolds etc, and a woman in stockings is my biggest turn on cliche I know. Anyway happy hunting x

Emily, 41 from Mortlake, London

Tattooed blonde looking for fun

Looking for something different?

Free sign up - no credit card required

Sign in to search

A fast, fun way to find sex near you

Featured areas

Find members in