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Lorraine, 53 from Plymouth, Devon

I have a devil on one shoulder and an angel on the other... it's a battle sometimes.... but.. come and say hello..... I won't bite ....... I'm a fun, lively and vivacious kind of girl, looking for good times, lots of laughs with someone a little special.... Not into 'One night stands'. Never have been..... Not about to start now....... So here I am, do drop by and say hello..... flirt a little........and let the Fireworks begin......... Ps... Not much into winks if I'm honest, if you are interested and want to say hello then do so.....

Chez, 25 from Nottingham, Nottinghamshire

I'm amazing. I'm sure you are too XD. Would love to talk to anyone in the area and maybe meet up have a laugh, exchange stories lol. Please don't contact me if you're over 35 years old as I need a cut off point, there's mine. Also I'm only interested in black men. So don't contact me if you're over 35 and/or non black. No offense intended. Looking forward to chatting with some of you :) Peace!

Gerry, 58 from Hersham, Surrey

Gerry sent you a message: "first contact" (Friday at 2:21am) Gerry winked at you (Friday at 2:17am)

Anna, 45 from York, North Yorkshire

what I currently desire remains undecided... will update when I have decided Anna x

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