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Life just keeps getting faster and faster, and not everyone wants to play the traditional dating game. If you've been looking for something a bit different, where you're not having to dodge people looking for serious relationships and where people just want to have fun, then My Bed or Yours is the place for you.

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You might be a busy professional, or you've finished a long-term relationship and just want to play the field a bit. It doesn't matter, and you're not the only one. What's important is that you want to do it safely and to keep your privacy when you're looking around in Mottingham for a no-strings encounter, or wider (if you're traveling for example). My Bed or Yours is just what you need.

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There is more to My Bed or Yours than just meeting people for sex. Maybe you are feeling horny and want to flirt with someone online for a bit or possibly you are in a committed relationship but you enjoy reading other peoples sex diaries or checking out their photos.

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Adult dating has really taken off recently and we're proud to be and active and exciting site for our members. Part of the reason we've managed to become popular is because we believe that our members deserve a good service and aren't just an open wallet. To demonstrate this we give everyone a free trail with no credit card requirement and no lock in subscription - you get to try the service on your terms. We are also constantly improving our service to give you the best experience. We recently launched our mobile app so you can use the site easily on your phone or tablet privately. We've also revamped our location based search to make it so much easier to find the people who are actually close by. No hunting through endless pages of search results. This is all in addition to our social messaging platform, picture and video profiles, flirts and dedicated support staff.

We recommend that you put a little effort into making your profile as attractive as possible to get the most number of messages. But you're free to do that at your leisure. As soon as you sign up you've got access to our entire member list. To create an account we just need your email address so we can send your details to you. There's no credit card needed at all for your initial account. So why not take a peek.

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Elizabeth, 64 from Mottingham, London

Hello......the only thing I ask please....is if your married or in a relationship I'm.. Not your girl....thank you....x

Maxine, 54 from Charlton, London

I'm a widow looking for one to one, I love going out pubbing it and for meals, going for walks in the countryside and I love cozying up at home watching a good movie on the TV. I'm looking for a guy that wants to get to know me inside and outside the bedroom

S, 54 from Paignton, Devon

Well, having been on here for a few months now, I thought I should update my profile. I've found that I prefer guys who are younger than me BUT if I fancy you, then age is irrelevant. I'm looking for NSA fun but would really enjoy getting to know you because friends make better lovers. If we were to click the I could be open to perusing a relationship but that's not at the forefront of my mind atm. I'd love to be taken out to dinner/ lunch or for a few drinks and treated like a lady. I...

Stephen, 57 from Evesham, Hereford And Worcester

I'm 57always looking for fun. Single hard working and forever horny. Like traveling eating out and need a friend for fun and good times

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