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Magic, 25 from New Malden, London

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Blackcurvy, 31 from East Ham, London

Hi. I'm a curvy women (size 20) and near 5'11. So if you're not into bigger women I am not for you. I am easy going and down to earth. Just looking for some casual fun/nsa and not looking for anything serious. I also can't accomodate. P.S If I don't respond to your messages, don't take it personally. I can't manage to respond to Every message I recieve. Also let me just put it out there, i'm not looking for bbc (google if you don't know what that means)

Miro, 38 from Torquay, Devon

Hi, I split up with my wife and I'm looking for women for fun.

Gemma, 28 from New Malden, London

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