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Pete, 36 from Royton, Greater Manchester

im a laid back very respectful guy.just looking to see where it goes.it will always be fun.PLEASE,NO MESSERS,

Karen, 57 from Whitehaven, Cumbria

H'i---- all you sexy people. I hope you have got all your presents wrapped up ready for Christmas ? When i'm wrapped up I look pretty innocent !! Unwrapped I could be your best surprise ever ?? I hope you find my profile interesting to read,and you take the time to look through my photo's, I always enjoy looking at yours !! You would find me easy to get along with once we get to know each other,I have an open mind as far as conversation goes about sex,and we could have a chat together about any subject. Sex...

Clauvis, 36 from Monken Hadley, London

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Nikki, 43 from New Southgate, London

Single mum looking for fun :) not into married men or young lads wanting an experience, just a curvy woman looking for a normal guy who knows how to handle a real woman! Sense of humour required and high sex drive essential. Any questions please ask, chat soon xx

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