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Skye, 42 from Notting Hill, London

Hello, I'm an attractive single lady who's bright, independent, loving, kind and very passionate. **IF YOU ARE ONLY LOOKING FOR A ONE NIGHT STAND WE ARE NOT SUITED. CLICK ELSEWHERE ** **I AM EMPLOYED AND DO NOT WISH TO MEET A MAN TO FINANCE MY LIFESTYLE ** I'm seeking a passionate possible long-term Affair with a married man. Companionship, lots of laughter, drinks, dining etc.. and erotic intimacy. I'm Single but do not want a conventional relationship. Nor am I interested in being on singles dating sites for one night stands. I like being a Mistress. I can be...

Pauline, 41 from Fence, Lancashire

Having to change my profile again due to chicken none shows. If you can't perform then don't waste our time. I'm looking to be fucked hard, I'm not looking for a pen friend or to play picture tennis, grow up for God's sake. So I'm a big girl, yes a big girl with a big apatite for sex especially sucking dick. I'm size 18 with 40FF boobs and trimmed pussy. Hubby is present at all times. If your under 25 or over 50 then jog on. If you can not accommodate at your place then jog on. Looking for...

Kayza, 38 from Gospel Oak, London

Looking for a lovers and friends type of relationship with someone who knows how to: Treat her like a lady and have the upmost Respect always... I shall reveal the rest of me if I wish to That would be telling wouldn't it! It's good to be a bit of a Mystery... Hence no Interest in profiles with only a Dick pic. Lol nothing left for the imagination... I detest arrogance please stay clear if you are! I'm not interested in married/Attached men, single guys only!

Steve, 45 from Bakewell, Derbyshire

Professional guy looking for a discreet sexy fun. I have a really good job so no pics on profile but happy to provide to the right person if you like the idea of a meeting - So what am I looking for? A little excitement, well a lot actually, someone to share the occasional or regular liaison with. I am good company, well educated and have a good sense of humour. Sophisticated cafe culture definitely gets my vote, so hopefully you'll want to meet me for coffee at first, and then who knows.... I love arts, the theatre and...

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