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Neighbour, 43 from West Brompton, London

Me.. feminine, feel comfortable and ready to explore.. I am new to the idea of casual relationship.. but found myself to busy with... not looking for full relationship, could be free late evenings.. ps. can't accommodate

Karen, 42 from Lockerbie, Dumfries And Galloway

Hi Im a single parent I hav had some real trust issues finding it hard to get bk on the dating life. I'm really really shy till I feel I can open up anything else ask I may answer

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