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My Bed or Yours is a discreet, easy to use adult contacts site for open minded adults to meet other adults for some naughty fun, a bit on the side or a regular fuck buddy. If you are looking for a good time without the commitment or dramas that come with a serious relationship, My Bed or Yours is your new best friend. Search online for new sex partners in North Finchley or slip it in your pocket with our latest mobile app and find casual sex wherever you are.

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We're not your run of the mill adult dating site. We were fed up with the amateur looking sites and poor service the others were offering. We wanted to create a discrete, exciting site that lets you find bedroom partners that excite you. No tricks or sleazy tactics - just an honest, upfront, safe way for you to find a fuck buddy. To prove the point we offer a free - no credit card - trial for you to get a feel of what we have to offer. Membership fees pay for our full time monitoring staff to keep away the trolls and any nuisance members.

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  • Send winks, icebreakers, and virtual gifts as well as the usual chat and private messaging options either from your desktop or direct from our mobile app
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To ensure the best mix of members we automatically upgrade all women to premium membership absolutely free. This ensures the best mix of men and women in a traditionally male dominated environment. We want all our members to be happy. By providing free upgrades to all female members we know they are happy and with so many new women looking for sex, our male members love us.

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Lisa, 46 from North Finchley, London

Looking for an honest genuine friend with benefits

Pete, 50 from Nuneaton, Warwickshire

im 50+ coming on 15 lol widowed , totally honest and trustworthy, which explains everything your reading , great big softy , hopeless romantic , likes to treat a lady as a lady, adore kids got two daughters of my own , not looking for anything serious just a bit of fun in my spare time , love football, swimming, bowling , love a good night out but just as comfortable with cosy nights in, photo was taken in july 15 so what you see is genuinely what you get im afraid , so if you like what you...

Kim, 33 from Broomfield, Essex

Hi all, looking for an older (40+) dominant man, who can be dominant out of the bedroom aswell as in it ,who prefers a younger female, hopefully for regular discreet meets. Please be aware that I'm unable to do daytime meets, nor do I want to start anything only to find that it is difficult for you to get away from home or that your time is restricted. those just looking for sex claiming to be dominant hoping to get a meet for sex it just wont happen, Guys demanding a reply is not dominant (demand ya won't get...

Cookie, 52 from Wymondham, Norfolk

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