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Stephen, 39 from Weston-Super-Mare, Somerset

Hi im Steve from weston I am looking for nsa fun as I love sex and lot's of it xxx

Mariah, 46 from Doddington, Lincolnshire

Hi ...I work hard want to play harder...don't entertain at home personal and work don't mix with private...they say variety is the spice of life if so bring on the spices x

Sarah, 27 from Risca, Mid Glamorgan

Happy go lucky person. Just here for a look etc

Bikergal, 53 from Rushden, Northamptonshire

:) Hi I am looking for people who are friendly that I can connect with, I feel that friendship is important to me in any relationship, however casual, being able to chat and exchange views and experiences, feeling at ease with one another, enjoying each others company in a nice relaxed atmosphere and at the end of it wanting to meet again. I don't rule out the possibility of a relationship but I am not expecting to meet 'the one' on this site, but I do expect people to be genuine and honest with me, I have a major...

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