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Tracey, 51 from Dartmouth Park, London

I am submissive woman and love dominant men, I'm looking for a man who has a dominant personality and likes some fun, I love being spanked and I find being blindfolded very erotic, I'm of medium height and have a curved figure, I am open minded and also like a man to take control...

Heidi, 30 from Biggleswade, Bedfordshire

Hi everyone I'm heidi and I'm on looking for a great chat and a laugh so if your that just come and chat

Chryssie, 49 from Croxley Green, Hertfordshire

PLEASE DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME CONTACTING ME IF YOU'RE OVER 50, STOCKY, ASIAN OR HAVE AN EMPTY PROFILE. I'm an intelligent, responsive 'BBW' (size 28) seeking something REGULAR, and hopefully at least semi-committed, with a reliable, honest and highly-sexed single man in the London area (NW especially, or Herts/Bucks). You will need to be broad-minded, confident, and comfortable being seen in public with a big woman. Please be Caucasian or light-skinned/mixed race, communicative, 25-50, slim/athletic build, decently endowed and preferably a non-smoker. Stamina and a short refractory period are bonuses, as is being cut. Initially at least, safe sex...

Nick, 44 from Norwich, Norfolk

UPDATE 29/6/2107 Really only now looking for single females or couples up for possible threesomes/foursomes, if thats on your bucket list let us know xx good luckxx Fit professional , cycle a lot and train in a gym regularly, in general look after myself, looking for similar naughty females. looking for naughty females for discrete liaisons, not looking at ruining relationships just trying to introduce some excitement into our daily lives. Not after a relationship as we all have busy lives. We don't want to hear each other's histories I won't bore you with mine ! Looking for similar...

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