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Rose, 55 from Stoke St Mary, Somerset

I'm a mature woman looking for sex, not a relationship but also not a succession of one-off sessions. I am most definitely looking for just one person on a regular basis. I would like to find a gentleman on an equal intellectual and sexual footing, who has the ability to satisfy me in every respect. This includes truth and honesty, not just about his situation but also with regard to what he is doing. I don't expect an exclusive relationship, necessarily, but I do expect honesty about what is going on elsewhere. There is one other thing that is...

Cliff, 73 from Pilgrims Hatch, London

Hi, I am a divorcee living in my owned maisonette in Fernicombe road. Unfortunately, at my age, I am getting a little bit tubby but all the important bits are in good working order and I like to practice on a regular basis. My hobby's are gardening and DIY and am good at both. I have recently completed building a plunge pool and hot tub in the top garden and use it nearly all the time. However, I have a couple of confessions to tell. Firstly, I enjoy cross-dressing and secondly I am a devout aquafilliack. If you don't...

Bridget, 50 from Diss, Norfolk

Looking for fun and wot ever comes after that

Dixie, 20 from Barnes, London

Indian, foodie, Fitness enthusiast, studying Dentistry UoP. Passion for Photography/fashion among other things. P.s I have Skype, What's App, Kik \u0026 Sc I'm looking for face to face encounters, I like dressing up, reccomend me a specific outfit/lingerie etc, that you'd like to see on me. It helps to make things interesting. I have bad imagination so link me the outfit. Do you have any body part fetishes? Tell me. What's your favourite picture of mine?

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