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Kim, 33 from Broomfield, Essex

Hi all, looking for an older (40+) dominant man, who can be dominant out of the bedroom aswell as in it ,who prefers a younger female, hopefully for regular discreet meets. Please be aware that I'm unable to do daytime meets, nor do I want to start anything only to find that it is difficult for you to get away from home or that your time is restricted. those just looking for sex claiming to be dominant hoping to get a meet for sex it just wont happen, Guys demanding a reply is not dominant (demand ya won't get...

Lisa, 46 from Bridgend, Mid Glamorgan

Looking for an honest genuine friend with benefits

Blackdick, 33 from Ponders End, London

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Cookie, 52 from Wymondham, Norfolk

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