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Mark, 48 from Ton-Pentre, Mid Glamorgan

it really turns me on when a girl loves others watch us fuck or even join in

Jay, 46 from Ponders End, London

Just looking to see if this is for me No Married Men No guys that swing both ways No 20 odd year olds and sorry I'm only attracted to black guys so no abuse needed thankyou

Dizzie, 47 from Ponders End, London

Isn't it funny how things turn out?... Who woulda thought it?! Curious! Looking to help fulfil your fantasies - and mine!

Jules, 48 from Whetstone, Leicestershire

I'm a big girl that might (and thats a big might) be tempted to a bit of fun I'm in a relationship and happy but love the buzz from some harmless flirtations so I'm always happy to chat

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