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Mrereal, 39 from St Albans, Hertfordshire

im a single guy here 4 nsa fun, new experiencs, good laugh n flirty banter, no bullshitters or those with no profile pic, get to the point and be blunt if you messege me pls x

Del, 47 from Kilmarnock, Dumfries And Galloway

Hi,I'm a real female,the photos are of me and are recent.I'm from Yorkshire originally,still have the accent and go back for visits now and then. I'm 47,look a bit younger have long red/blond hair and green eyes,I'm 5'2" and size 8/10 I'm straightforward,easy to get on with a quick sense of humour and I'm a bit of a night owl Be good to see someone quite regular but recently separated looking to meet new people for some fun,dates and hassle free company. You could let me know what kind of thing you are looking for,maybe chat and hopefully meet...

Melissa, 31 from Purley, London

Hi! Im a cuddly 30 year old from Essex :) I have a very high sex drive and am looking for a guy to give me a good seeing to ;) I love being eaten out, and im a gusher ;) I also love watching guys wank their big cocks for me. I love watching guys into toys and CBT I also would love to see videos of you fucking other girls from here ;) Send me a message with Video as the title and ill tell you how to get it to me ;) Im also very curious...

Fiz, 37 from Kirkstall, West Yorkshire

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