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Milly, 54 from Perivale, London

I'm looking for companionship and friendship. Could meet for a chat over a cup of tea or wine. Please do not contact if you haven't got a decent photo on your profile. I'm not into threesome or one night stands

Kelly, 30 from Arnold, Nottinghamshire

Hi there firstly I'm not looking for anything too serious as i work a lot just need someone to help release some stress when i need it, this person would need to to drive as i don't but i can accommodate. I am a bigger woman and i don't just mean big boobs so if you're after someone who has a tight body please move on as I am a size 22 woman. I am kinda picky when looking for a fwb so please don't take it personally if i don't reply to you, you're not what im looking...

Carol, 65 from Grassendale, Merseyside

Hello I am a young 63 year old feeling 43.. I am 5'5" have shoulder length blonde hair, brown eyes. I am single and looking to meet someone who can make me feel special again. I am loyal, honest and have a lot of loving to give to the right person. If you like what you see please get in touch. No married men please.

Ziggy, 40 from Catford, London

Hi. White blue eyed well educated, intelligent, down to Earth and outgoing Londoner looking for some discreet passionate fun and laughs to take the edge off working life. I have a massive naughty streak. Best wishes x

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