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Ronald, 66 from Rochford, Essex

my names is Ron im as you see 66 yrs old . Come say hi chat to me . I will answer any questions you ask , so come ask away I don't bite ....................... hard anyway haha . the pic is recent lol

Jen, 31 from Milford Haven, Dyfed

I'm adventurous and very kinky. I love no strings, kinky fun!

suzi, 49 from Rochford, Essex

Thank you for taking time out to read my profile. Just thought I would give this a try looking for a gorgeous guy to play with for occasional nights in or out.(sos guys not into one night stands or quickies) Is there any seriously nice genuine guys out there !!! ..Sorry but if you dont have pictures then please dont expect a reply !!!! .love attractive handsome men who love to dress in suits and take pride in their appearance and have a love of life and sense of fun. Ideally with a sense of humour and great fun...

Mhu, 48 from New Scone, Tayside

Looking for one regular person for fun times dont want to have anyone mess me about! Im open & honest if you want to know more please just ask

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